I am newly married to one of my childhood friends who in a million years would ever think that that's who I would be married to and my first marriage at that. He is a great guy and very sweet and takes care of me however I still have questions or shall I say doubts about his past relationship. We were both in relationships when we reconnected and we only dated for a year before we were married. We've known each other since we were 10 years old and our families know one another. My now husband was dating a girl whom he went to high school with for 2.5 years and they were engaged to be married but quickly went south towards the end because he found out she was talking with another man and spent her birthday and etc with the new guy. He found her car at his house and they soon broke up. he didn't physically see her cheating on him but was spending a lot of time with this new guy. They were totally in love and this really hurt him. He contacted me a moth later after their break up and suggested we should hang out. I agreed and then we started dating a few weeks later. My questions are about how he really still feels for her. I have read a few emails where he has written to her that he's the one who messed up and took her for granted and she was the smartest, most independent, beautiful etc and that he could never love anyone else they way he loved her and that their break up has runied him and his feelings for another person would always be guarded. He asked me to move in with him a month after we were dating and asked me to marry him after 3 months of dating. She attempts to contact him but he never has responded to her. My question and for my own piece of mind is, why did he marry me if he felt so deeply and strong love for her as he said? He says he doesn't love her and that he realizes that she was wrong for him and that he was in a bad relationship and knows he is with the right person now and he is where he wants to be and has no regrets and would not take her back even if we were to divorce. With that being said, my mind still wonders how he really feels or has any regrets. Why did he marry me so quickly? Don't get me wrong, I love this man with ALL my heart and this is my first marriage but I just don't want to be used or be with someone who is in love with someone who is in love with someone else or doesn't love me as much as I love him. He does take care of me in every way and I apppreciate and LOVE him to the moon and back. Is this wrong to feel this way? Thank you for listening :) | |||
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Looming questons still remain.. Need advice..
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