| My wife and I have been married 20 years last July. We have three children. About six years ago she had a EA with a co-worker and insists that nothing physical happened. While I admit to wondering about that I eventually let it go. The EA, though, made her realize that she enjoyed flirting. Before the EA she rarely talked to other men. After the EA she began relationships with two other men that she insisted were just friends. I spoke with one of them and he said that they were friends and nothing happened. I actually believe him. By the way, I should point out that all three men I am discussing are married. Anyway, there is a third person who lives near us. For over a year my wife kept up a phone and text correspondence with these two men and when I voiced my concerns she responded by buying phone cards and had them use *61 to disguise their numbers when I checked phone records. On one occasion in 2011, she did not get home at the regular time from work. She normally worked until 7 pm and got home about 10 minutes later. I fed the kids and around 8:50 pm drove by her work to see if she was still there. The parking lot was empty except for a few cars by a Starbucks located at the edge of a strip mall full of doctor offices and stores. I drove the length of the lot and off to my right saw her car parked next to another. IF I was not looking for her car I would have missed it. As I drove up, this guy started his car and got out of there like a bat out of hell. Later, my wife insisted she was not in that car. To this day I know she was lying. Several times a week that summer my wife would leave home at about 7:30 pm and get back at 9:15. It was like clockwork, the times were almost always the same. Again, she insisted she was not seeing anyone but shopping or walking through the mall. On one occasion she claimed that she was meeting one of her friends at a dunkin donuts. She came back two hours later with a hot cup of coffee that was not touched. I should point out that I had to take my son someplace and could not find my keys. I am certain she had them or hid them. The next morning I spoke to her friend who told me she had not spoken to my wife in several weeks. Okay, all of that ended in September 2012 when she realized that our marriage was not going to survive with her talking to these guys behind my back. And she always insisted that nothing ever happened and that she never saw these guys in person. I should also point out that I never met the third person despite her promises to have us meet. Well, this past Saturday night my wife got angry with me about something and texted this guy. They exchanged several texts. Late last night I looked at her phone. When he recognized who was texting, he responded with, "Hi, sweetie." The next text said, "I miss you." I admit that I do not want to give her the benefit of the doubt but these two texts really bother me. I should also point out that she did not respond to the sweetie or I miss you. I also want to point out that she often told me that she would never allow another man to use terms of endearment toward her but she clearly did not do that. Again, though, she did not respond to that either. Her responses were along the lines of "how are you and the family?" So, now what? Thanks. | |||
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