He's lied all along

So my story is long but anyway... We have been separated for over a year and I asked him to move out of our house last July due to him not breaking off an EA with an old flame. The past few months hes been very attentive, taking me out on dates, wanting to spend time with me. He has even stayed over after family days together and slept in the spare room. I have suspected he has been seeing a new woman, because my son has told me she's daddy's "friend". My husband knows my firm boundary: no other women or forget it. He has sworn left and right he does not have a girlfriend. I've asked him point blank about her he says he just knows her from church years ago. (Way before we met). Last week I find out this woman has posted some very cozy pics of her and him on her facebook - of their weekend away. Posted LAST WEEK. She refers to him as her sweetheart and how she's in love. I confronted him he said he is not in a relationship with her and has told her he does not want a relationship. I asked him why is he still seeing her and he said he didn't know why. Then he said he didn't want to give her up until he knew if our relationship was going to work out. He has not really made any effort to see if our relationship will work! Dates here and there where we have gotten along great and had a great time. He has made comments alluding to our future together a lot. TODAY: After spending yesterday together and a nice date last night, he comes over today and says he wants to talk. This is what he says: - I"m sorry I've hurt you but I have got to let you go. I like you and still love you but this is not going to work. - You'll never forgive me for what I've done. - Do whatever you need to do to let me go. Yada yada yada. I said ok. Then he left. I dig a bit deeper and find out he's been seeing her all along. And it seems EVERYONE knows about it except me. I feel so humiliated and lied to. Who does this to someone? Who can string their wife along like this and be so devious and lie? As for the POS woman, what the heck? He's still a married man. I feel sick inside. I feel so betrayed and I feel like a fool. I still loved him and I wanted to make things right.

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