Hi there, I was just hoping for some advice/input about some parenting issues I have been having with the daddy.
I have a 14 month old little boy, he is my first and I am by his side most days when I am not working 3 days a week. My mom watches him on the days that I work.
I watch him constantly and have his best interests at heart all the time. However, his dad is annoying and takes a very laid back approach/lazy approach to parenting.
We are together, we share a home, he asks to watch him sometimes when I am working and ideally this is nice that he wants to spend time with him, he DOES not watch him and he DOES not know what he is doing at all when it comes to supervision. I know a lot of the reasons I don't want him to keep him have been based on me seeing how he treats his little girl.
He has slept before while watching her, he has also drank one and sometimes more beer while driving her too and from the lake. He has kept her on a boat for long hours, she is only 3 1/2.
Anyhow, he doesn't watch him. I guess I am looking for support and any advice as to how to either teach him how to be a more attentive parent or how to get him to not want to watch him or something? I know this sounds bad, but I don't want something happening to my little boy, and he is his father, I cant keep him from him forever. He doesn't ever play with him or try to teach him anything at all, in fact all he ever does is turn him upset down and act stupid with him.
My little boy doesn't have much attachment to him, he doesn't seem to like him very well, and as sad as this is, he has only done this to himself. On his days off he spends them gone fishing all day everyday and doesn't take much interest in me or our son.
For instance on fathers day, he dropped his little girl off and me and his son off, to go spend the whole day fishing.
I want what is best for my son and it almost gives me a panic attack just thinking that he would be watching him for more then an hour.
He also thinks its ludicrous that he takes two naps a day. He acts like I am being overbearing when I don't want his sister feeding him from the same spoon she just fed her little one with. I just get so tired of feeling like I am this mothering hag. I have tried explaining that children need naps and stability and he just turns it back around on me and makes it into a joke. Please help before I strangle this idiot!!
I have a 14 month old little boy, he is my first and I am by his side most days when I am not working 3 days a week. My mom watches him on the days that I work.
I watch him constantly and have his best interests at heart all the time. However, his dad is annoying and takes a very laid back approach/lazy approach to parenting.
We are together, we share a home, he asks to watch him sometimes when I am working and ideally this is nice that he wants to spend time with him, he DOES not watch him and he DOES not know what he is doing at all when it comes to supervision. I know a lot of the reasons I don't want him to keep him have been based on me seeing how he treats his little girl.
He has slept before while watching her, he has also drank one and sometimes more beer while driving her too and from the lake. He has kept her on a boat for long hours, she is only 3 1/2.
Anyhow, he doesn't watch him. I guess I am looking for support and any advice as to how to either teach him how to be a more attentive parent or how to get him to not want to watch him or something? I know this sounds bad, but I don't want something happening to my little boy, and he is his father, I cant keep him from him forever. He doesn't ever play with him or try to teach him anything at all, in fact all he ever does is turn him upset down and act stupid with him.
My little boy doesn't have much attachment to him, he doesn't seem to like him very well, and as sad as this is, he has only done this to himself. On his days off he spends them gone fishing all day everyday and doesn't take much interest in me or our son.
For instance on fathers day, he dropped his little girl off and me and his son off, to go spend the whole day fishing.
I want what is best for my son and it almost gives me a panic attack just thinking that he would be watching him for more then an hour.
He also thinks its ludicrous that he takes two naps a day. He acts like I am being overbearing when I don't want his sister feeding him from the same spoon she just fed her little one with. I just get so tired of feeling like I am this mothering hag. I have tried explaining that children need naps and stability and he just turns it back around on me and makes it into a joke. Please help before I strangle this idiot!!
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