So basically, I have a problem with my little sister. My parents have pampered her and basically done anything to make sure that she doesn't cry. If she cries then my parents usually give her whatever she wants. She's nearly 7 years old and she's still a spoiled brat. She has a diva complex and she thinks she should get whatever she wants. She steals, she lies and she actually hits my 16 year old sister because she knows that she's not going to do anything. I'm particularly annoyed because she bullies my youngest sister who is very well behaved and is very kind. I feel like I'm more like an authority figure to her than a brother. Most of the time I interact with her is when she bullies my youngest sister or when my other sister has trouble with her. Nobody else really does anything at times so I have to do something. My mother shouts at me because I make my sister cry, she just ends up enabling her behaviour.
I barely make an effort with her anymore, I just can't stand her. Even when she's nice to me it's irritating and a lot of the time she just sucks up to me. I don't like her in general although I care for her. I sometimes try and spend time with her but it's not much, it ends in her crying a lot of the time too. I just feel like an enforcer, I'm there when there's trouble but when there isn't I just don't want much to do with her. I also feel bad knowing that I love my littlest sister way more than my 6 year old sister. I don't even try to hide it either, pretty much everyone knows that I like my youngest sister more by miles. I fear for what she might turn out like, it is partly my fault though. For the past few years I've been neglectful, not just of her but my sisters and family in general. If I was there more I could have helped her grow up better.
Any advice?
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