This will be long..........
So I have been with this guy for around 8 months. When we first got together and weren't official he was also seeing another girl behind my back (that I didn't know about at the time). I thought because we weren't official I should forget about the other girl and give it a go when he asked me to be his Girlfriend.
He told me when I told him that I couldn't get with him unless he gets rid of the other girl that he would never talk to her again, deleted her off all social media, deleted her number, deleted her off whatsapp etc.
Around Christmas time I was on his FB playing a game on his Ipad and he received a message, I opened it and I read it and it was from her. It annoyed me at the time but I thought that he can't help who messages him and it was a pretty innocent message.
Around 2 weeks ago I was at a friends house and she was in a group chat with this girl who he had been seeing at the same time as me. I told her to ask her if she had seen K recently. This is what the girl replied saying..
''We're still quite close, we're supposed be going clubbing at the weekend together.'' then she was saying how he drinks a lot on nights out and can't control his alcohol intake or whatever and how last week he fell over and hurt his arm (Which is all true).
I then asked him in a conversation (face to face) what he was upto at the weekend (acting like I didn't know) and he said nothing... So I obviously said ''I thought you were going clubbing with S?'' and he looked really surprised that I knew and then said he messaged her asking her a question about someone and she had replied saying that he should come clubbing with her and he said yes just to be nice but he wasn't going to go. When I started getting angry with him, he then told me I was paranoid.
The thing that upsets me is they have so much in common, they both like the same music, they're both vegetarians, they both love gaming, they both love like world peace **** and joining the peace core and whatever it is they do. But they are very similar and she is so so pretty.
Why does he need to talk to her or ask her questions? he knows I don't like her and that they have a history so why would he do that? why would she say they we're still pretty close if he only messaged her the once asking her a question?
What do I do guys? I'm feel like I can't trust him or if I let my guard down I'm going to get my heart broken (again!). If he would just tell me all about it and be honest about him and her with me then maybe I could let it go but I always feel like he's hiding something from me when it comes to her and it makes me dislike him.
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