There are times when the conversation in my head feels like it works. Then I think about it and it sounds like I'm attacking her and blaming her. Then I change things up and it sounds like I'm being too soft. Then it changes again and it sounds like I'm not giving her the opportunity to make the changes necessary and like I'm the a--hole.
She usually doesn't work weekends. This weekend she did, she says in part to make extra cash for the hospital visits she intends on having. She left about 5am and it's now 9.30pm. I work weekends and I've finished my day, come home, had dinner, taken a bath, prepared for my day tomorrow.
So, if I call or email asking her about where she is, I look needy. If I don't, then I feel like I'm an idiot for believing she's at work (It's possible, stupid hours and free overtime are a problem in this country) However, I've never heard of this long a day and I do want to say something WHEN she gets home.
That was actually me thinking about 2 questions: How you asked for a divorce? And how do you ask why someone is especially late from work, and at a time when you would expect more focus on home?
She usually doesn't work weekends. This weekend she did, she says in part to make extra cash for the hospital visits she intends on having. She left about 5am and it's now 9.30pm. I work weekends and I've finished my day, come home, had dinner, taken a bath, prepared for my day tomorrow.
So, if I call or email asking her about where she is, I look needy. If I don't, then I feel like I'm an idiot for believing she's at work (It's possible, stupid hours and free overtime are a problem in this country) However, I've never heard of this long a day and I do want to say something WHEN she gets home.
That was actually me thinking about 2 questions: How you asked for a divorce? And how do you ask why someone is especially late from work, and at a time when you would expect more focus on home?
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