Talked to a serial cheater at work today. Well I call it cheating anyway. Her and her hubs have an open marriage. Key parties are the norm for during the weekends. She said if there is no ring, the message is they are available. I asked why that is. She replied saying because if you are proud to be married you'd show it off. If you are married and you don't wear one, the message is you are available. I replied what if the person lost the ring or it needs to be sized? She replied saying you won't spend 30 bucks to show how proud you are and to show that you are off limits?! Then she mentioned that a person can get a key chain ring or a washer and she would not go after him and that is all that's needed. She said its not just her but other women as well. She asked me if 50 bucks too much money to spend on a ring to where it would chase away the idea of availability. She said that if most married men and women would actually wear the rings, there would be a whole lot less cheating. She said it reminds them of their vows, and it also reminds the other person of their vows and therefore does not inquire. Perhaps this b!tch is right.
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