So, since getting 3 BJ's and giving the wife oral and PIV on Christmas Eve. I decided to start marking on my calendar how many times we have sex this year.
Earlier in the Fall I had a talk with my wife about the apparent lack of sex in our marriage and mentioned that 10x a year or less is considered a sexless marriage. She of course got defensive and said we ARE well above that number.
I then reminded her that in Sept. We only had sex once and not even on my birthday.
So, back to the topic at hand. I've decided to keep track of sexual activity on the calendar on my phone so I can add things such as when I initiate and get turned down, when she initiates (I might even have to decline now and then) and if oral was part of it or if there was any stand alone oral (which I'm sure I could fill the whole year out right now). I'm mainly doing this to see what our sex life is over a year(I hope I can keep this going).
Since Christmas Eve, I can count on the hand that's growing out of the back of my head how many times we've had any kind of sexual activity(Wow, 2 weeks already) I've already had to jerk off more this week than the number of times we had sex in Dec. 2014(hell, I surpassed that Jan.2)
It's getting sooo easy to read her. She'll be home from work for about an hour and she'll complain she's really tired or has a headache or thinks she might be getting her 3rd period in the last 6 weeks(she sounds like a hockey game). As soon as I hear these complaints I know she has no intention of any intimate get togethers, but I try anyway. I must thrive on the rejection.
I think it will be interesting come this time next year as to how many times we actually do have sex. I she gave me 1/20th the attention the kids get I wouldn't have time to come here and read any posts.
Wish me luck!!
Earlier in the Fall I had a talk with my wife about the apparent lack of sex in our marriage and mentioned that 10x a year or less is considered a sexless marriage. She of course got defensive and said we ARE well above that number.
I then reminded her that in Sept. We only had sex once and not even on my birthday.
So, back to the topic at hand. I've decided to keep track of sexual activity on the calendar on my phone so I can add things such as when I initiate and get turned down, when she initiates (I might even have to decline now and then) and if oral was part of it or if there was any stand alone oral (which I'm sure I could fill the whole year out right now). I'm mainly doing this to see what our sex life is over a year(I hope I can keep this going).
Since Christmas Eve, I can count on the hand that's growing out of the back of my head how many times we've had any kind of sexual activity(Wow, 2 weeks already) I've already had to jerk off more this week than the number of times we had sex in Dec. 2014(hell, I surpassed that Jan.2)
It's getting sooo easy to read her. She'll be home from work for about an hour and she'll complain she's really tired or has a headache or thinks she might be getting her 3rd period in the last 6 weeks(she sounds like a hockey game). As soon as I hear these complaints I know she has no intention of any intimate get togethers, but I try anyway. I must thrive on the rejection.
I think it will be interesting come this time next year as to how many times we actually do have sex. I she gave me 1/20th the attention the kids get I wouldn't have time to come here and read any posts.
Wish me luck!!
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