I've been on a few dates recently and whilst I find it very easy to get the first, I've had a great deal of difficulty getting a second.
In 5 dates, I found 3 compatible, of which 2 agreed to a second on the day and one absolutely couldn't keep her ****ing hands off me.
In the two I didn't find compatible I sent a polite "thanks for coming" message the following day, got a response, left it there.
On the one that I didn't ask for a second date on the day but did kiss, I got a response the following day but nothing came out of it.
On the two that agreed to a second date on the first, both of whom I kissed, both of whom there was clear mutual attraction from, I didn't get a response the following day.
I don't get it. If the first goes well, you try a second. It's not like we both got drunk and she did something she regretted as there wasn't that much alcohol involved in the first place.
Anybody know what I might be doing wrong? I doubt I'm coming across as over eager because really I'm not looking for anything in particular. I've just come out of a breakup from a very long term relationship and just want to experience a bit of normality. I don't think I'm unattractive, I'm successful (academically and professionally) and not particularly arrogant about it. The dates go, on occasion, really well and I don't know what's up.
Anybody care to shed light? What would cause you to not sign up to a second if the first went well?
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