Hi everyone. I have been married for just over 13 years. I have no children or other dependents, and my hobby is my horse. My husband normally works long hours, but when he is home (which can often be on short notice), he seems to get quite annoyed if I don't choose to change any plans I already have and instead wants me to come straight home to be with him. Or he gets jealous if I say I want to go and catch up with my friends or go to my horse and he will ask if he can come or says things like "oh, I guess you'd rather be with them than me. I'll be okay here. Don't worry about me" and stuff like that. He kind of says it in a joking manner but I think that he does feel that way! He doesn't go out to see his friends on his own, and we don't have a lot of mutual friends either. Is he being unreasonable or am I ? How can I explain that I love him, but I don't want to be with him all the time and that I have other hobbies / friends / etc? Thanks f or any advice :-)
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