My wife and I have been married for going on 9 years now, we have had our differences but always loved each other and cared for each other, I have a physical disability and she had Bi-polar and BPD. We complement each other as she does the heavy lifting and i take care of paperwork and bills.
But i feel our marriage is on a downhill slope, she seems to have distanced herself from me and only wants to be around our daughter that she had with a previous relationship. She has even come out and said she would rather hang our with her (Our eldest daughter is 20) then me cause she feels closer to her.
That really cut deep when she said that as i thought we had each other. I have tried everything i can to take any extra stress off her by taking out the trash/recycling and cooking and cleaning as much as i can. I have even taking to mowing the lawn cause it helps her (but puts a bad toll on me health wise)
I love my wife with all my heart and never want to see her sad but i don't know what more i can do to help her as she won't even talk to me about any issues she has. Our love life has long since died even after compromise after compromise leading up to a vasectomy (we had 1 child together) at her request as she didn't want more kids and if anything our love life died even more.
I just mainly wanted someone to rant to and thank anyone who is there to listen and any help would be greatly appreciated.
But i feel our marriage is on a downhill slope, she seems to have distanced herself from me and only wants to be around our daughter that she had with a previous relationship. She has even come out and said she would rather hang our with her (Our eldest daughter is 20) then me cause she feels closer to her.
That really cut deep when she said that as i thought we had each other. I have tried everything i can to take any extra stress off her by taking out the trash/recycling and cooking and cleaning as much as i can. I have even taking to mowing the lawn cause it helps her (but puts a bad toll on me health wise)
I love my wife with all my heart and never want to see her sad but i don't know what more i can do to help her as she won't even talk to me about any issues she has. Our love life has long since died even after compromise after compromise leading up to a vasectomy (we had 1 child together) at her request as she didn't want more kids and if anything our love life died even more.
I just mainly wanted someone to rant to and thank anyone who is there to listen and any help would be greatly appreciated.
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