Here a quick summary, there is a former employee,(no dipping in the company pool) she is younger than me, two kids, recently out of a 7 year, bad relationship. (Going on a year). She is a former employee, we talked constantly and got along great..
We always had hard core eye contact, always pulling the proverbial have to stretch and push the goods out at me… Always wanted to hit me and the like, one of the draws for me about her is she really "nice", smart, and shy, of course attractive.
After she left we kept in touch via messaging, she gave me her number then we talked about going out for a coffee, then between her new job travel, kids, life, and of course my job, we never made it out. So I just let it ride, that was in June. We are both a really busy people. Work never stops for me I am on call 24/7/365….
Here is my dilemma,
I want to ask her out however I believe she is still may be going through relationship BS with her ex and her former friends.
My thoughts are to wait so she has had more time to heal and move forward in her new life.
I have a few "girl friends" who talk to her and drop hints about me... They want to get her out and have a by chance meeting. A hidden setup. I asked them not to do that as it would be not right. They know we are both good people and want to set us up.
This is not a life and death thing for me. I actually could engage in this or just let it go. This is one reason why I know I am good with the girl thing again after the D.
Thoughts?
We always had hard core eye contact, always pulling the proverbial have to stretch and push the goods out at me… Always wanted to hit me and the like, one of the draws for me about her is she really "nice", smart, and shy, of course attractive.
After she left we kept in touch via messaging, she gave me her number then we talked about going out for a coffee, then between her new job travel, kids, life, and of course my job, we never made it out. So I just let it ride, that was in June. We are both a really busy people. Work never stops for me I am on call 24/7/365….
Here is my dilemma,
I want to ask her out however I believe she is still may be going through relationship BS with her ex and her former friends.
My thoughts are to wait so she has had more time to heal and move forward in her new life.
I have a few "girl friends" who talk to her and drop hints about me... They want to get her out and have a by chance meeting. A hidden setup. I asked them not to do that as it would be not right. They know we are both good people and want to set us up.
This is not a life and death thing for me. I actually could engage in this or just let it go. This is one reason why I know I am good with the girl thing again after the D.
Thoughts?
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