I'm 19 and he's 21, both guys, and I'm in my second year of uni. I regularly went out to bars and clubs with him for a few months; we'd pre-drink at his, we'd go out, be all over each other, have general fun, get drunk, etc, then go back to his place and have sex, and I'd stay the night. Sometimes we'd hang out during the day at his and occasionally we'd go into town together during the day. He usually said he'd missed me the next time I met up with him, and he'd introduce me to people as his 'beau' or boyfriend. We never said anything about this and just carried on as normal.
One day I text him, saying that I liked him and had a lot of fun with him, but I couldn't go out to places with him and sleep with him any more until I got an answer of what we were; I didn't want to go along with something in my head that wasn't ever going to happen, and it was driving me crazy that I didn't know where we stood. We met and talked; he said he wasn't ready to be anyone's boyfriend at the moment, to which I said okay. He said we had more than just going out and sex (obviously I don't know if this is true). I have to stay in the same city my uni is in at summer, because of the nature of my course. When we talked, he said he'd be in my city again this weekend, and it would be good to meet then.
We haven't had contact for about 6 weeks now; what do I do? Do I text him and try to meet him this weekend, or do I leave it and move on? I still like him, but obviously I don't know how he feels about me now. Thank you :)
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