I have a thread in CWI, but I feel this post belongs here. My husband and I are attempting reconciliation after my affair and things have been going well-- or so I thought. So well, in fact, that he and I have been having unprotected sex for 3 months. Generally we try to use the charting method of birth control, but after one pregnancy scare we were still not careful about it. Well, now I'm pregnant, and I was under the impression that if something happened, we would be okay. Turns out, he decided overnight he just doesn't want the baby now, and wants me to get an abortion. I am absolutely against this, and now he is bullying me and insulting me to get me to change my mind. One of our biggest issues with this R is his alcoholism and bullying, as you might see in my other thread. Now he's calling me selfish, telling me it's "inhumane" to raise a child in this broken marriage (we already have a 3yr old...), saying it's hurting him just as much as it'l l hurt me. We have been discussing having another child for years and I was happy about the pregnancy, and saw it as a glimmer of hope. I've already imagined life with a 2nd child, and a sibling for our 1st to play and bond with. Now it looks like I should just move out and away from the situation. I told him I can't put myself and an unborn child through something as traumatizing as an abortion. Either way, it seems we'll end up resenting each other. What a mess. He knows this is his child-- there is no question there.
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