Im going to try to summerize everything thats going on in my life right now. Found out a few weeks ago that my wife was having a EA. Found good hard evidence ie phone records, email ect. Finally approched her and blew it up. Well she lied to me when she told me she had broken contact with this guy. I have placed VAR in our house just to be sure she wasnt contacting this guy. Found out tonight that she still is.
Now I am a very beta person, so I know that part of this is a problem that I caused. But when you have three kids, and I work 2 jobs trying to support them and her, my time at home is limited. I really wish I could be there all the time but I cant. She has no idea how good shes got it. She is a SAHM and two of our kids are in school all day. She does not want to go get a job because she says it would be a waste of money because all the money she would make would be going to daycare.
Apperently she is very much in love with this guy, who also happens to be married. Im thinking why even try to trust her anymore. She has told me she wants a divorce, but we both decided to try to work it out. Ya right. Im trying, shes not.
I hate snooping on her all the time and feel guilty about it but I have no choice. Please give me some feedback and thoughts on my situation and maybe the next steps i should take. Sorry if I am rambling on, just alot of feelings going on right now.
Now I am a very beta person, so I know that part of this is a problem that I caused. But when you have three kids, and I work 2 jobs trying to support them and her, my time at home is limited. I really wish I could be there all the time but I cant. She has no idea how good shes got it. She is a SAHM and two of our kids are in school all day. She does not want to go get a job because she says it would be a waste of money because all the money she would make would be going to daycare.
Apperently she is very much in love with this guy, who also happens to be married. Im thinking why even try to trust her anymore. She has told me she wants a divorce, but we both decided to try to work it out. Ya right. Im trying, shes not.
I hate snooping on her all the time and feel guilty about it but I have no choice. Please give me some feedback and thoughts on my situation and maybe the next steps i should take. Sorry if I am rambling on, just alot of feelings going on right now.
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