I recently realized that for the first time in my 28 year old life I have fallen in love. I have been in relationships but never felt this way about anyone. I used to be jealous, controlling. Not anymore. I want this person to be happy, I want him to do whatever makes him happy. But a part of me does want him to feel the same way about me. Unfortunately, he doesn't. We have been friends for almost 7 months now but never really took things to that next level.
He is moving to a different state in early fall and I am constantly torn between just letting him go and doing something to encourage him to think twice.
Why does God send someone in your life if that person is going to leave anyway? I have been struggling with feelings of selflesness and selfishness, and I have no clue how to handle how I feel.
Should I let him know and risk losing a friend, subjecting myself to heartache or should I let him go?
I was told I should fight for what I want and not be passive but is that even right with matters of the heart?
He is moving to a different state in early fall and I am constantly torn between just letting him go and doing something to encourage him to think twice.
Why does God send someone in your life if that person is going to leave anyway? I have been struggling with feelings of selflesness and selfishness, and I have no clue how to handle how I feel.
Should I let him know and risk losing a friend, subjecting myself to heartache or should I let him go?
I was told I should fight for what I want and not be passive but is that even right with matters of the heart?
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