I had a fight with my husband tonight, or well more like he sat there and harassed me for like about an hour to TELL the truth to our kids well the truth to him is and he is very verbally aggressive about it. So after that I caved (feeling very foolish and stupid right now)and I called my babies down from bed to tell them that my babies and I are going up north for my cousins grad without daddy. My husband wanted me to tell them and I did that I lied and plotted with my auntie about him so he couldn't go with us. What the lie part about is about is that he thinks that my auntie thinks that he slept with his little brothers ex wife and he didn't, and I didn't stand up for him,and I did stand up for him. Anyway so I call my kids downstairs and tell them that daddy isn't going with up to the grad ceremony because I lied and plotted against him so he couldn't go. He kept insisting I tell them everything so I continued, that I'm a liar and I made stuff up abou t him and his brothers ex wife so now my auntie doesn't want him to come. My daughter who 13 couldn't not figure out how that would have happened because as far as she knows he only saw her once and the swimming pool. After of course my husband kept telling me that I to tell them the truth about the whole affair and the whole story involving my auntie. And that is that while I was there, building a cake for something that while I was working he was over at his brothers ex-wife say again brothers ex-wife's house and that it could be scene or taken in a very bad way.
No were after my daughter said that did he say that maybe my auntie might think this because he spent every single evening over at his brothers ex wife's house. Not like dropping something off I mean gone from dinner time to like 1 or 2 in the morning.
SO am I crazy for thinking that he devised this so I look like the crazy bad person not him, because after I told my kids that I am a deceitful liar he was happy and backed off. While denying that was what he wanted apparently he just wanted to talk about what I was going to tell them because I had to tell them the truth.
So I'm a more then a little angry at him right now, and I am uncertain if it is warranted. Am I crazy for thinking he devised this so I look bad in front of my kids.
No were after my daughter said that did he say that maybe my auntie might think this because he spent every single evening over at his brothers ex wife's house. Not like dropping something off I mean gone from dinner time to like 1 or 2 in the morning.
SO am I crazy for thinking that he devised this so I look like the crazy bad person not him, because after I told my kids that I am a deceitful liar he was happy and backed off. While denying that was what he wanted apparently he just wanted to talk about what I was going to tell them because I had to tell them the truth.
So I'm a more then a little angry at him right now, and I am uncertain if it is warranted. Am I crazy for thinking he devised this so I look bad in front of my kids.
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