I have been going out with a guy I met on a trip at Uni for the past month now, and I can honestly say it has been the most amazing, intense and wonderful month of my life. However, since we have taken the step to make things more serious, I have been feeling doubtful about the relationship. It's not so much my feelings for him, as he is a lovely guy who I get on very well with, and I believe we are compatible. It is more the fact that the excitement is over and reality has hit. I've had a lot of pressure recently with Uni work stress and so has he, which could be contributing to the way I've been feeling. I just feel like we may have rushed things a bit and am questioning whether this is right.
I have been nervous of relationships ever since my last one ended, about 5 months ago, but I'm scared that my own over-analysing is going to end the relationship I have with this lovely guy now. We have spoken about it and he has felt similar doubts about commitment, but is clearly very into me.
I know I would regret breaking up with him and would miss him straight away - the thought makes me feel very sad. I was just wondering if you guys have any suggestions about coping from the transition from the honeymoon period to actually settling down.
I have been nervous of relationships ever since my last one ended, about 5 months ago, but I'm scared that my own over-analysing is going to end the relationship I have with this lovely guy now. We have spoken about it and he has felt similar doubts about commitment, but is clearly very into me.
I know I would regret breaking up with him and would miss him straight away - the thought makes me feel very sad. I was just wondering if you guys have any suggestions about coping from the transition from the honeymoon period to actually settling down.
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