I've been with my boyfriend since early November, we've been "official" since the beginning of the year.
Our relationship has been amazing, we were quite full on pretty quick and I honestly thought he could be the one.
Today he used my phone to go on Facebook and didn't log out. I went on forgetting it was on his account and went onto messages. When I realised it was his account I was about to log out when I saw a message from a girl that just ended in a phone number.
What I found were messages dating back to when we first got together to this girl. Some were very explicit. He had ended it at one point saying he was seeing someone but the most recent message was just a few weeks before we were "official" asking if she was out that night
The stuff he was saying to her was the sort of thing he was saying to me at the time, just like.. compliments and stuff.
I know I have no grounds to be angry, I was snooping and it was all before we were official. I just feel a bit betrayed. I thought he was different.
I wanted to confront him but I'm even more afraid of losing him because he will assume I no longer trust him.
Our relationship has been amazing, we were quite full on pretty quick and I honestly thought he could be the one.
Today he used my phone to go on Facebook and didn't log out. I went on forgetting it was on his account and went onto messages. When I realised it was his account I was about to log out when I saw a message from a girl that just ended in a phone number.
What I found were messages dating back to when we first got together to this girl. Some were very explicit. He had ended it at one point saying he was seeing someone but the most recent message was just a few weeks before we were "official" asking if she was out that night
The stuff he was saying to her was the sort of thing he was saying to me at the time, just like.. compliments and stuff.
I know I have no grounds to be angry, I was snooping and it was all before we were official. I just feel a bit betrayed. I thought he was different.
I wanted to confront him but I'm even more afraid of losing him because he will assume I no longer trust him.
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