Me and my fella have been together nearly two years, near the start of our relationship I had an offer to go to Australia for 6 months on a working visa, but I was worried that if I went then our relationship would fizzle out, and I didn't want that to happen... He promised me that in time, we'd go together. Maybe not for 6 months, but for a few months at least. Like an IDIOT, I listened to him and didn't go. I've had the offer to go again this year (my step dad lives there), and I really really want to go this time round, but our relationship is much more serious now than it was back then, and I'm not the type of girl who can just say goodbye easily. I miss him the second he leaves my place, so leaving him behind for a few months would literally destroy me, I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself without him at all. Anyway, I was fine with not going because he has a new job now and can't take that long off work. I'm a little disappointed but I assumed that be cause we're in quite a serious relationship, that at some point we'd go abroad for just like two weeks or something. He was fine with this, and we started looking at places to go, hotels to stay at ect. Then, out of nowhere his dad offers to take him abroad and pay for it, as well as his brother. He agreed straight away, without even talking to me first. Now that wouldn't bother me, but like I said he has a new job now, and he can only have so many days off. He said he'd happily spend 1 week with his dad on holiday and 1 week with me, but isn't that a bit selfish on his part? I've gave up going to Australia TWICE just so I can stay around FOR him, I love him and I couldn't imagine going on holiday without him. I know there's a difference between a week & a few months, but this just doesn't seem fair to me. I've never been abroad on holiday before, and I have a sleeping disorder, so for me to go on holiday for a week would be stupid because the majority of the time, i'd be sl eeping because of jet lag, I wouldn't be able to sleep on the plane because I'm scared of flying (hence why i've never been abroad). I wanted my first holiday abroad to be special at least. If I was single, then I would of gone on a girls holiday to Ibiza or somewhere like that. But I'm in a relationship, therefore I only want to go on holiday with my boyfriend. The fact that he WANTS to go on holiday without me, pains me even more. He's actually choosing to leave me behind. This might seem controlling to some people, but I just think it's so unfair. I want my first holiday to be at least for 2 weeks! I just don't see the point in going on holiday for a week, when the majority of the time will be spent in the airport or in bed, sleeping. My fella is 20 atm, he will be 21 by time the summer arrives. Am I stupid in thinking it's a little strange that by boyfriend would rather go on holiday with his dad rather than with his girlfriend?!
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