So I'm a 17 year old girl, in a girls school and have been in this friendship group for the past 5 years. Our group of friends are the kinds of people who don't really socialise with boys, who are kind of quiet around others and are very proper and are generally goody two shoes, but lately I've been feeling like I don't fit in.
They all don't drink, have sex or go to late night parties etc like I really want to, and it's gotten to the point where I feel incredibly jealous of others who party all the time and I just don't get to! I've tried fitting in but it's no use, it's as if I give off a saddo vibe that doesn't get me invited to any of the places I want to go to. Even my boyfriend, who has always been the geeky stay at home type now stays out late, drinks and parties and I feel like an outsider, like I'm not enjoying my teenage life 'properly'.
What should I do? Should I distance myself and try to tag along with others? and how do I do that without seeming desperate e.g. without inviting myself to the parties?
Thanks!
They all don't drink, have sex or go to late night parties etc like I really want to, and it's gotten to the point where I feel incredibly jealous of others who party all the time and I just don't get to! I've tried fitting in but it's no use, it's as if I give off a saddo vibe that doesn't get me invited to any of the places I want to go to. Even my boyfriend, who has always been the geeky stay at home type now stays out late, drinks and parties and I feel like an outsider, like I'm not enjoying my teenage life 'properly'.
What should I do? Should I distance myself and try to tag along with others? and how do I do that without seeming desperate e.g. without inviting myself to the parties?
Thanks!
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