Can self development, whilst having many positive outcomes, make you outgrow your relationship.
For those who read alot and try to analyse and better themselves, have you ever had the thought that you have kind of outgrown your nearest and dearest. Like if you grow and the other person remains the same (i.e. remains as you both once were) it makes the relationship more difficult and unsatisfactory.
Often when people present problems on here people will say have your partner read x y or z but the other partner may not want to read or seek self development, at least not at this point. But is there a way of just letting the other be and still having a good relatioship, or do you need to have the other person grow for the relationship to thrive.
Your thoughts and experiences ...
For those who read alot and try to analyse and better themselves, have you ever had the thought that you have kind of outgrown your nearest and dearest. Like if you grow and the other person remains the same (i.e. remains as you both once were) it makes the relationship more difficult and unsatisfactory.
Often when people present problems on here people will say have your partner read x y or z but the other partner may not want to read or seek self development, at least not at this point. But is there a way of just letting the other be and still having a good relatioship, or do you need to have the other person grow for the relationship to thrive.
Your thoughts and experiences ...
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