I'm a 32 year old woman and I'm with my husband for about 15 years we have 4 Lovely children and we are now having our 5th.
In the past couple of years my sex drive has become little or nothing close to celibacy, My poor husband has been trying to help spice things up with fantasies/role-play/ reading stories/toys etc with some excitement but the only thing is the Drive is not there.
When i was younger in my late teens and yearly twenties my drive has uncontrollable and my husband loved it when people spotted his battle scars he would have to make a story up.
But now as years went on the drive declined to little or nothing.
I need help on how to get it back.
My husband works nights and has a steady roster so we know what days off we have together between 2 days and 3 days per week.
Money is tight these days so over night trips are out.
Paid babysitters are out too.
Dinners would be rare and planned weeks in advance but we live in the country side away from Family and if family babysit its and overnight stay for them too so there would be no intimacy as the spare room is next-door to our bedroom and with thin walls.
Neither of us are taking any medication for anything.
Both of us are generally in good health.
2 of our kids are in School till 2pm and one is in play school till 12pm but we still have our 1 year old at home who does not nap or sleep during the day.
So any advice please :scratchhead:
In the past couple of years my sex drive has become little or nothing close to celibacy, My poor husband has been trying to help spice things up with fantasies/role-play/ reading stories/toys etc with some excitement but the only thing is the Drive is not there.
When i was younger in my late teens and yearly twenties my drive has uncontrollable and my husband loved it when people spotted his battle scars he would have to make a story up.
But now as years went on the drive declined to little or nothing.
I need help on how to get it back.
My husband works nights and has a steady roster so we know what days off we have together between 2 days and 3 days per week.
Money is tight these days so over night trips are out.
Paid babysitters are out too.
Dinners would be rare and planned weeks in advance but we live in the country side away from Family and if family babysit its and overnight stay for them too so there would be no intimacy as the spare room is next-door to our bedroom and with thin walls.
Neither of us are taking any medication for anything.
Both of us are generally in good health.
2 of our kids are in School till 2pm and one is in play school till 12pm but we still have our 1 year old at home who does not nap or sleep during the day.
So any advice please :scratchhead:
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