I have posted here many times and have worked hard on going to therapy and trying to improve boundaries etc with my husband.
But sometimes you just need to vent. Case in point... Today.
I never go to lunch with friends. Ever. My husband had been working a freelance job for an agency for 45 days. Today was his last day. He normally works from 9 til noon. I asked him if he could possibly be home by 1 so I could go to lunch with a colleague. She's been very nice but I had canceled on her due to my work schedule. I made my husband commit to being home by 1 at the latest do I could go to lunch and leave our son to him for an hour. He said no problem. I offered to reschedule again this morning. I told him that I couldn't leave this woman sitting at a lunch table without me there at 1:30. He said no problem!!!!!
At 1:20 I was standing by the door. No husband. So I called him. Got vm. I took my son with me to this lunch. I was so angry. Husband calls me and says he's sorry that they threw him an impromptu goodbye party. He was sorry. He said he would meet me at the restaurant. Park his car and take mine ( with our son in it ). I said okay.., he was supposed to leave keys under floor mat for me. I got out of car and the only request I had was to make sure our son ate lunch. He said okay.
I walk into lunch (10 seconds after I get out of car) and he calls and complains about his workday. I said gotta go! Click).
Them I get out of lunch and walk to gather car he parked. No keys. He had both sets. I call him. No answer. I text. No answer. I sit for 20 min. He finally texts and says he's sorry. He has been busy with some client of his (the one he was complaining to me about). I said please come get me. He said okay. I finally find him. Our son asks to ride with me. He proceeds to tell me daddy hasn't given him anything to drink or eat since I left.
Husband apologizes and says he's been so worked up over the horrible expectations of his client he can't concentrate.
He says he can't understand why on earth I'm upset with him. He says that he's just stressed and busy.
I dunno but I am pretty ticked off. I DID handle it. But isn't this just rude behavior????!!
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But sometimes you just need to vent. Case in point... Today.
I never go to lunch with friends. Ever. My husband had been working a freelance job for an agency for 45 days. Today was his last day. He normally works from 9 til noon. I asked him if he could possibly be home by 1 so I could go to lunch with a colleague. She's been very nice but I had canceled on her due to my work schedule. I made my husband commit to being home by 1 at the latest do I could go to lunch and leave our son to him for an hour. He said no problem. I offered to reschedule again this morning. I told him that I couldn't leave this woman sitting at a lunch table without me there at 1:30. He said no problem!!!!!
At 1:20 I was standing by the door. No husband. So I called him. Got vm. I took my son with me to this lunch. I was so angry. Husband calls me and says he's sorry that they threw him an impromptu goodbye party. He was sorry. He said he would meet me at the restaurant. Park his car and take mine ( with our son in it ). I said okay.., he was supposed to leave keys under floor mat for me. I got out of car and the only request I had was to make sure our son ate lunch. He said okay.
I walk into lunch (10 seconds after I get out of car) and he calls and complains about his workday. I said gotta go! Click).
Them I get out of lunch and walk to gather car he parked. No keys. He had both sets. I call him. No answer. I text. No answer. I sit for 20 min. He finally texts and says he's sorry. He has been busy with some client of his (the one he was complaining to me about). I said please come get me. He said okay. I finally find him. Our son asks to ride with me. He proceeds to tell me daddy hasn't given him anything to drink or eat since I left.
Husband apologizes and says he's been so worked up over the horrible expectations of his client he can't concentrate.
He says he can't understand why on earth I'm upset with him. He says that he's just stressed and busy.
I dunno but I am pretty ticked off. I DID handle it. But isn't this just rude behavior????!!
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