Sup guys.
Just posting this thread as a bit of a rant and also in the hope that someone could give me some advice.
So tonight's New Year's Eve. I had it all planned out as an enjoyable night. House party first, followed by a night out in town at a club. Except nothing ever works out as easy as that.
Went to the house party and had a great time. Come 11 o'clock though and it's decision time as to whether to continue the party there or go into town. Half of my friendship group (mostly my guy best mates) want to stay and just carry on with the house party and the other half (including the girl I like) want to go into town. I decide to go to the club, mainly because I want to get to know some people better and also because my crush is going.
Cue a load of texts from my best mates generally just being dickheads saying I should come back and I've made the wrong decision. I'm pretty drunk so I retaliate and say some fairly nasty things. They respond in kind. I've now kind of realised they were joking around and I reacted way OTT.
Secondly, I then find out the girl I like apparently likes someone else... one of my best friends (according to some of her friends - although they're not even sure). Now, I'm completely perplexed by this. I love the guy but he's essentially an awkward, social recluse.
I literally don't know what to do now. I've never been that successful with women but I've always taken solace in that fact that I have the best friends anyone could ask for. Now I'm not even sure I have that.
And the girl... I was so convinced she liked me, I was actually thinking about making a move tonight. Well, that well and truly went out the window.
Thanks for reading, I just needed to vent. Having said that, any advice as to what I should do with my friends or the girl would be greatly appreciated :(
PS Happy New Year!
Just posting this thread as a bit of a rant and also in the hope that someone could give me some advice.
So tonight's New Year's Eve. I had it all planned out as an enjoyable night. House party first, followed by a night out in town at a club. Except nothing ever works out as easy as that.
Went to the house party and had a great time. Come 11 o'clock though and it's decision time as to whether to continue the party there or go into town. Half of my friendship group (mostly my guy best mates) want to stay and just carry on with the house party and the other half (including the girl I like) want to go into town. I decide to go to the club, mainly because I want to get to know some people better and also because my crush is going.
Cue a load of texts from my best mates generally just being dickheads saying I should come back and I've made the wrong decision. I'm pretty drunk so I retaliate and say some fairly nasty things. They respond in kind. I've now kind of realised they were joking around and I reacted way OTT.
Secondly, I then find out the girl I like apparently likes someone else... one of my best friends (according to some of her friends - although they're not even sure). Now, I'm completely perplexed by this. I love the guy but he's essentially an awkward, social recluse.
I literally don't know what to do now. I've never been that successful with women but I've always taken solace in that fact that I have the best friends anyone could ask for. Now I'm not even sure I have that.
And the girl... I was so convinced she liked me, I was actually thinking about making a move tonight. Well, that well and truly went out the window.
Thanks for reading, I just needed to vent. Having said that, any advice as to what I should do with my friends or the girl would be greatly appreciated :(
PS Happy New Year!
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