Any Suggestions on How To Rebuild?

Ok, divorce has been filed and I've accepted that it's over. Still dealing with loss and reality that I've been rejected and or replaced.

I allowed myself to stagnant during last years of marriage. I did a personal inventory and here is my findings:

The good:

I'm a good person who makes mistakes.
I have a safe place to live while I heal
I have a job
I know what I like and value in myself
I have some safe people to grow with

The bad:

I'm up to my eyeballs in debt
I'm scared to try a career change because of my age and taking on more debt
My safe place to live will cramp dating when I'm ready for that
I have some unsafe people who hinder my growth but I can't afford to cut ties

I'm sure I'm not the first person to have faced this dilemma. Any suggestions on what to prioritize as I move forward.

Thanks.

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