My husband and I have been together since we were teens. We pretty much have grown up together. We have found ourselves together and we have a mostly happy life together. I love him to pieces and and the feeling seems to be mutual. As of late the feelings have been tested a few times over and over and I feel like we are at a fork in our journey as a couple. I am finding out things about him that is making me feel queasy to know him. I recently found out that he is looking at websites that show pictures of teens (18 but looks younger) in bikinis and provocative clothing. Don't get me wrong I am ok with porn when it is a fully mature woman who has made a choice that it is ok for men to wank off to that but not when it is an (possibly) innocent teen who was just posting pictures on Facebook for her friends to see. I was sexually molested as a young child/teen so this has always been so mething that I have been strongly against since before we got together. We have been looking into getting a therapist to try to work things out or to try and mediate our discussions. This along with other issues have me thinking is it even worth the fight anymore. He has been consistently making me distrust him more and more over the last couple of years and what is a relationship without trust? At this point I don't know if it worth trying to work it out or if it is time to go our own ways. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did it work out for you?
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