http://talkaboutmarriage.com/mens-cl...-quickies.html
So the OP says that even though she has been with her boyfriend for 9 months he is still basically only wanting booty calls from her. But she is mostly OK with this.
The other posters in the thread have suggested that he sees little value in her beyond sex. That's why he calls, does the deed and leaves. No foreplay, helping with the dishes, no afterplay. He just needs a release and she gives it to him.
I've never been able to pull this off. The shortest period between meeting a woman and sex for me was a month with half a dozen dates. Slowly building up to sex. It's usually been a much longer waiting period for me. And I have to WORK for sex in a relationship. Things are a little different (or a lot different) with the current SO but.........
I don't know how some guys put 0 effort into a relationship and get sex with a snap of the finger (or text). While others (like me) have to wine, dine and all that stuff. It makes me feel less than the guys who get it so easily.
Why do you ladies give it up so easily to some but not others? It's terrible for my confidence to read threads like that one and compare it to my own experiences.
So the OP says that even though she has been with her boyfriend for 9 months he is still basically only wanting booty calls from her. But she is mostly OK with this.
The other posters in the thread have suggested that he sees little value in her beyond sex. That's why he calls, does the deed and leaves. No foreplay, helping with the dishes, no afterplay. He just needs a release and she gives it to him.
I've never been able to pull this off. The shortest period between meeting a woman and sex for me was a month with half a dozen dates. Slowly building up to sex. It's usually been a much longer waiting period for me. And I have to WORK for sex in a relationship. Things are a little different (or a lot different) with the current SO but.........
I don't know how some guys put 0 effort into a relationship and get sex with a snap of the finger (or text). While others (like me) have to wine, dine and all that stuff. It makes me feel less than the guys who get it so easily.
Why do you ladies give it up so easily to some but not others? It's terrible for my confidence to read threads like that one and compare it to my own experiences.
Put the internet to work for you.
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