I don't really have much reason but I keep worrying that my SO is no longer interested in me.
When we met a couple of years ago she had this vision of me as a rockstar and one of the coolest guys in my school lol (IRL I was bullied/didn't feel I fit in). Now we're in uni, and she's seen me go through a mental health and self-esteem crisis during our relationship which I eventually opened up to her about it...I feel like she's going to get fed up with me and leave me for someone without problems/someone more interesting/hotter/more popular etc.
i I don't know how to shake this feeling, it's a bit like the awareness that she could say I love you today but dump me or cheat on me tomorrow. I don't think she would but it's perfectly possible
I've already made a thread about fearing she'll leave me for this mate on her course because o the face of it he doesn't have these problems/is more popular/I feel they have more fun together etc., I'm almost tempted to set them up. I struggle to stop worrying like this
I don't want to have her have to keep reassuring me because it'll get excessive and I know I'm a bit paranoid in nature to start with
Any advice?
When we met a couple of years ago she had this vision of me as a rockstar and one of the coolest guys in my school lol (IRL I was bullied/didn't feel I fit in). Now we're in uni, and she's seen me go through a mental health and self-esteem crisis during our relationship which I eventually opened up to her about it...I feel like she's going to get fed up with me and leave me for someone without problems/someone more interesting/hotter/more popular etc.
i I don't know how to shake this feeling, it's a bit like the awareness that she could say I love you today but dump me or cheat on me tomorrow. I don't think she would but it's perfectly possible
I've already made a thread about fearing she'll leave me for this mate on her course because o the face of it he doesn't have these problems/is more popular/I feel they have more fun together etc., I'm almost tempted to set them up. I struggle to stop worrying like this
I don't want to have her have to keep reassuring me because it'll get excessive and I know I'm a bit paranoid in nature to start with
Any advice?
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