partner can't make me orgasm?

Hi there, Slightly awkward topic, but me and my boyfriend having been struggling a bit with the whole female orgasm thing, and I don't really know what to do. The problem is, it's not that I'm not sexually attracted to him or whatever, because trust me, I really am, and it's not an emotional thing either because I completely love and trust him, I'm completely comfortably with him, so that's not a mood-killer. We are sleeping together but that's only happened a few times, and it's still kinda painful as I was a virgin, so obviously that's a mood-killer, but I shouldn't have to have sex with him to orgasm should I? Obviously stuff with him is fine. I have tried telling him that it's very much easier for the girl to get the guy to orgasm than the other way round, but he still feels bad about it and I think it's knocked his confidence which I really don't want, so again, I don't know what to do. He's asked for help and stuff, like me telling him what I like I suppose, but I honestly have no idea how to even go about helping him. I'd just be happy seeing how we go and re-addressing if stuff doesn't get better, but I don't like him feeling guilty, and so, please help me >.< Any tips on any of this would be great, thank you. xx

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