| My boyfriend is my first, we had a healthy sex life we only see each other once a week and did it about 3/4 times. I enjoyed it but recently I no longer want sex at all I never feel like I need or want it and find it actually tiring and painful not enjoybale. Ive put pn a fair amount of weight I use to be a size 6 and now im a 10 so I guess that has alot to do with it as I do not want to take my clothes of or be naked as I dont find my body nice or attractive. Secondly my boyfriend no longer compliments me. It may sound silly but even if were out for dinner or whatever and dress up he never says anything nice he always picks up on the bad things like 'youve clearly been eating a load of crap this week youve got spots'. In bed he doesnt compliment me either I mean im not expecting compliments but he says nothing at all It doesnt make me feel sexy or wanted. Again I brought some anne summers udnderwear not the sort youd normally wear so it was obvious i was trying to impress hima nd he just didnt mention it. I dont know if this has anything to do with it but for about a month now I havent wanted sex. I dont have any urges and shudder at the thought of it. Im so confused as to how ive gone to wanting to have sex and being the one to initiate half the time to not even wanting him near me. I think alot of it is that he isisnt very affectionate and focuses on himself during sex so therefore subconsicenly ive just switched of the idea of having a sexual relationship | |||
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