Hello,
I basically want to know if I am just a ***** or if all men require this type of thing.
Okay, I work about four hours from my house, I drive down once and stay for two to three weeks then drive back home. While I am working my husband is at home taking care of our animals and the house.
Recently, I was here working and he was at home and he calls me on the phone to tell me my horse Lizzie had gotten a snake bite. I asked him to send me a picture. He sends me a picture and it doesn't look anything like a rattler bite. The horses head wasn't insanely swollen and I've had horses since I was a little girl btw, he grew up in Texas and has very little horse experience. So I am on the phone with him and I say "Honey, that doesn't look like a snake bite" my mom is there and she agrees.
He gets mad or upset because after we get off the phone a few minutes later hes texting me about how I think he's incompetent. I never said that. So he calls a forest ranger guy who helped us with our last colt. The guy tells my husband, and he tells me it is in fact a snake bite. I am in disbelief because it just doesn't look like one at all. I say, Ok and ask what the forest guy is going to do. My husband tells me and we hang up. Now a day later after I have asked a couple of times for head shots of the horse so I could see the swelling I get a bunch of rubbish about how he's not going to indulge my request, because of my mother and I, and because he didn't get an apology or anything when he was proven right.
Am I wrong or is that insanely prideful? To need an apology everytime you're right about something?? I didn't give him a hard time or anything, now when he gives me a hard time about something and I know I'm right I want an apology, especially if he's been just a straight up jerk. But he's not apologizing to me because I was right, its because of how he treated me.
Am I in the wrong?
I basically want to know if I am just a ***** or if all men require this type of thing.
Okay, I work about four hours from my house, I drive down once and stay for two to three weeks then drive back home. While I am working my husband is at home taking care of our animals and the house.
Recently, I was here working and he was at home and he calls me on the phone to tell me my horse Lizzie had gotten a snake bite. I asked him to send me a picture. He sends me a picture and it doesn't look anything like a rattler bite. The horses head wasn't insanely swollen and I've had horses since I was a little girl btw, he grew up in Texas and has very little horse experience. So I am on the phone with him and I say "Honey, that doesn't look like a snake bite" my mom is there and she agrees.
He gets mad or upset because after we get off the phone a few minutes later hes texting me about how I think he's incompetent. I never said that. So he calls a forest ranger guy who helped us with our last colt. The guy tells my husband, and he tells me it is in fact a snake bite. I am in disbelief because it just doesn't look like one at all. I say, Ok and ask what the forest guy is going to do. My husband tells me and we hang up. Now a day later after I have asked a couple of times for head shots of the horse so I could see the swelling I get a bunch of rubbish about how he's not going to indulge my request, because of my mother and I, and because he didn't get an apology or anything when he was proven right.
Am I wrong or is that insanely prideful? To need an apology everytime you're right about something?? I didn't give him a hard time or anything, now when he gives me a hard time about something and I know I'm right I want an apology, especially if he's been just a straight up jerk. But he's not apologizing to me because I was right, its because of how he treated me.
Am I in the wrong?
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