okay so I've been involved with this guy for just over two months. For the first month we spent a lot of time together just hanging out like going to the cinema, out for food and he'd come shopping with me (tedious for him, lol). It was all kinda innocent but of course there was a flirty vibe there-after a couple of weeks we'd chill round his and watch films and kiss,nothing more.
Then after a month we slept together and having been doing often ever since. The thing is, I know that I'm not just a booty call and we aren't friends with benefits because we essentially act like a couple. Like, I now have clothes left in his wardrobe and a toothbrush + towel in his bathroom because I'm over there all the time. I've met a couple of his friends too.Because he's a student in my city he recently went back home for a couple of weeks and he told me often how much he missed me and even came home earlier than intended to see me, which I know wouldn't happen if it was just for sex-he's the type that could, if he wanted to, sleep with any girl if he wanted just a booty call. We've both made it known we're not involved with anyone else and he has even told me (from quite early on) that he really likes me and has made references like 'I'm lucky to have you' and 'You're mine' etc etc.
Anyway, my main question is, am I waiting for him to actually say 'will you be my girlfriend?' or am I already his girlfriend?
In my previous relationships I've always been asked the question but with this guy it's sort of like been assumed that we are together. Part of me doesn't mind not having the label just yet but part of me wants to know where I stand. I'm pretty sure I'm not wasting my time as it's evident we both like each other but I'm unsure whether me bringing the 'so, what are we?' question up might scare him off or if he's just assumed I'm his girlfriend/not the type to actually ask me out?
Sorry for rambling on!
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