I found this site looking for ways to deal with my sexless marriage. Like many my wife is extremely ld more like nonexistent. I am HD, always have been. We have been married 17 years and together 22. We always had a great sex life, 5-6 times a week average. But for the last 6 years it's been maybe 3 -4 times a YEAR. My big question is, how is it that the lD spouse isn't technically failing the marriage? to them things are peachy and sex isn't that important. That's bull****, sex and the intimacy that goes with it are a very important part of any marriage.
It seems the thing on this forum is, don't be to rough on the LD spouse. Why not? IMO they are as bad as a spouse that willingly goes out and has an affair. They are knowingly and willingly making decisions that will hurt the marriage. It should be grounds for divorce right there. In a lot of these cases, you wouldn't have trouble proving willful emotional abuse. Sorry, this is more of a rant than anything. I once again did all the housework, prepared an excellent meal. Made arrangements for the kids to be gone. Ran her a candle light bubble bath, surprised her with new satin sheets on the bed. I get yelled at for thinking I'm going to get some, her words not mine.
It seems the thing on this forum is, don't be to rough on the LD spouse. Why not? IMO they are as bad as a spouse that willingly goes out and has an affair. They are knowingly and willingly making decisions that will hurt the marriage. It should be grounds for divorce right there. In a lot of these cases, you wouldn't have trouble proving willful emotional abuse. Sorry, this is more of a rant than anything. I once again did all the housework, prepared an excellent meal. Made arrangements for the kids to be gone. Ran her a candle light bubble bath, surprised her with new satin sheets on the bed. I get yelled at for thinking I'm going to get some, her words not mine.
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