Hello Everyone,
I am indeed here for advice and input. I'll be straight to the point. My wife says that I do not have a passion for her. I have a passion for things, and other people but not for her.
While the other people she mentions I recognize that there is a long term relationship there that I have had for quite some time, longer than I have known her. (Other than my Daughter, but that is by one year at best.)
To make a long story short, we met online, while she was married to her previous husband, they had an open marriage. We dated secretly for a couple of years before they decided to get a mutual divorce. About two years later she and I were engaged and then married, Nov 16th.
Here we are, a year and a half later and things, such as games, projects, studies in various subjects seem to be grabbing my focus, as in the past. And she feels that she should not be an afterthought to all of that.
I am not disagreeing, but I am trying to figure out what is wrong with me so that I am getting SO immersed in these other things.
I had hopes and expectations for our marriage and it is tanking and going somewhere else.
I just don't know what to do because I feel like she's reached a point where she doesnt care anymore, she will let me do those things and we will just live like room mates or very good friends, she used Will and Grace as an example.
Any questions or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
I am indeed here for advice and input. I'll be straight to the point. My wife says that I do not have a passion for her. I have a passion for things, and other people but not for her.
While the other people she mentions I recognize that there is a long term relationship there that I have had for quite some time, longer than I have known her. (Other than my Daughter, but that is by one year at best.)
To make a long story short, we met online, while she was married to her previous husband, they had an open marriage. We dated secretly for a couple of years before they decided to get a mutual divorce. About two years later she and I were engaged and then married, Nov 16th.
Here we are, a year and a half later and things, such as games, projects, studies in various subjects seem to be grabbing my focus, as in the past. And she feels that she should not be an afterthought to all of that.
I am not disagreeing, but I am trying to figure out what is wrong with me so that I am getting SO immersed in these other things.
I had hopes and expectations for our marriage and it is tanking and going somewhere else.
I just don't know what to do because I feel like she's reached a point where she doesnt care anymore, she will let me do those things and we will just live like room mates or very good friends, she used Will and Grace as an example.
Any questions or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
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