Posting because I'm a paranoid wreck at the moment.
About 8 months ago I came back from a holiday with my family and for about 3 weeks after my boyfriend was very 'short' with me, barely spoke, when he did he was rude and we nearly ended it. During this time I managed to convince myself he was cheating on me. He wasn't, he just was extremely busy with work and to deal with it he shut everyone out. He has apologised since and promised me he would handle the situation better in future but I keep thinking he is talking to another girl.
I only think this because when he wasn't speaking to me he liked another girl's status. I understand how petty that is but there is a past between them. He liked her, she liked him but was she was in a relationship. He got over her pretty quickly and barely spoke to her after she told him it would never happen. But they are still 'Facebook friends'.
He actively flicks through his messages in front of me on his phone, Facebook, Twitter etc so I know nothing is going on and he has absolutely nothing to hide. He literally just liked her status when he wasn't talking to me and it's caused me to be so paranoid for almost 9 months.
Advice?
tl;dr... I thought boyfriend was cheating, he wasn't, I know he wouldn't but I am still paranoid all the time.
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