So, we know each other from a band we're in, and we both play the same instrument. I'm 18, he's a 27 year old guy who is married to a very beautiful woman who is currently having visa troubles and is stuck in a different country (he seems legitimately very sad about this).
So I see him once a week and we've become pretty good friends since meeting him a few months ago, but when I turned 18 a week ago I feel like it suddenly became flirty. It started with him saying how much he liked that I was in the band with him because it was someone to talk to (that was pretty sweet at the time). Then yesterday he said he was bored and suggested going to the pub or the cinema briefly but never actually asked me to go. Then today, he complimented my hair (?!) then an hour ago said he was bored and asked if I wanted to go to this big shopping centre near us.
This is all over facebook messaging- I've just read it from the previews because I don't want him to see that I actually saw it (so I can make an excuse later). Am I reading into this too much? He's nice and all but if I were his wife I wouldn't want him to be talking to me like this, you know?
What do I do?! Should I do anything?
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