It will be 6 weeks tomorrow since I found out about my husbands EA. It was mainly via texting and email. They stopped talking on November 5th. I check his phone, text messages, emails, work phone, phone bill. Anything you can think of, I check it. I feel crazy. It's consuming my life. Every time he picks up his phone, I think he is talking to her. It's turned into absolute paranoia. Is this normal? When will it stop? I see a counselor every week and we see a couples therapist every other week. He says he wants to work things out, but I am not sure. How do you go from talking to someone all day, everyday to just stopping. He says he doesn't even think about her. I feel like I think about her (them) all the time. He lets me check is phone whenever I want, but he isn't really doing much else. I feel like I need a little extra love and I don't feel like I am getting that. He's deffinity not going out of his way to make me feel special. he ha s never been a super Lovey/emotional person anyway though. And I just being paranoid? Part of me doesn't even want to try anymore. It's just to hard. Being 10 weeks pregnant is not helping anything either.
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