This is the situation: one of my male best friends (who has been my boyfriend in the past, like two years ago) has a girlfriend, for about two years now, who absolutely hates me. She basically prohibit him from talking to me, in the risk of they break up. They have broken up several times, I really don't know why, but still get back together.
Despite the probation, he still talks to me, and we still see each other sometimes. They have a long distance relationship, so there is never the risk of her seeing us.
So, basically, he is lying to her. He accepted that he can't talk to me, says that doesn't talk to me, but continues to reach me. He says he need our friendship and that he cannot tell her girlfriend because they are in a bad place at the moment.
But he said that all of the times that I tried to convince him to tell her the truth. 'Cause, no matter what, the truth is always the truth. Two years have passed... I have to hide myself. I can even be friends with him at facebook. I've tried to talk to her (via internet), seek the origin of the problem, but in my face she is all smiles and "Oh, I have no problem", but in the back screams in his ears how much she can't tolerate me.
I don't want to be the reason for them to break up. And I don't want to have to hide. When they are together, I can't talk to him, send a message. Nothing. He is not there. And I think... what if the start living together? That will annihilate me. I will cease to exist. He will never see me again.
That makes me sad. I never done anything wrong to her... I tried to be polite.
In the past, I've been in that situation, that my boyfriend was friends with an ex. And I never made an ultimatum. I never said anything. I always remember that: If you love somebody, set them free...
I don't know what to do... Do I keep shutting myself or do I leave all of this behind?
Put the internet to work for you.
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