[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I have a female friend who I also like more than a friend. But she is in a relationship and I have accepted that we can never be together. She doesn't have feelings for me anyway.[/COLOR][COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]So that being said, I like being friends with her. We get on really well and I'm happy when I'm around her.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]The only thing is, sometimes I feel like I am too nice to her, and treat her as if she is more than just a friend. I am always helping her whenever she asks and I am always available to her.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]Sometimes I feel maybe she doesn't appreciate everything I do for her. [/COLOR]
[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]Also, I feel really attached to her and sometimes I feel I act a bit needy and clingy. I know that's not good but that's what I feel.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I've never had a girlfriend so maybe my closeness to this girl is because of that? I don't know.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I want to stay friends with her, but I am scared of pushing her away or distancing myself from her, because I like the closeness I have with this girl and I don't really want to do anything to ruin our friendship.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]So I'm not sure how to proceed. I also get really upset easily with things regarding her. I care about her a lot.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]Do you guys think that this is a result of my unrequited feelings towards her? I don't mean to do it but I can't help it sometimes.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I already know I care about her a lot more than she cares about me. Maybe she doesn't need to care that much? Maybe I am expecting too much?[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]What are your thoughts?[/COLOR]
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