I have often observe other women in relationship or marriages who say they love their guys, but treat them kind of sheety. As a result, they are treated like queens and the men are at their beck and call.
My mother always urge me to be this kind of girl. To show less affection. Not to give so much love. That a man likes the challenge and chase etc.
I struggle here. I love my H very much. If I have to play games in order to get and keep his flame burning, I can't be happy. I may have more success in getting him to show me more love, but if I have to surpress my own passion in order for him to show more of his, what's the use...it would be so energy draining, that I would be too exhausted emotionally to enjoy the results of my "work".
Even from early on, I always spoke my mind to him. I showed him love and gave him gifts. I told him all I felt, exactly how I felt, when and why I felt it. My weapons were my honest love and sincerity. It is what won his heart. Should I have played games, pretend to be hard to get...would it have worked out?
I don't know. I'm just glad I haven't.
It feels so good to be yourself, say what you think and what you feel. And if they need the thrill of the game to be interested in you, hell, then you are not missing much !
I wonder if any other people feel the same way, or am I just so different ?
My mother always urge me to be this kind of girl. To show less affection. Not to give so much love. That a man likes the challenge and chase etc.
I struggle here. I love my H very much. If I have to play games in order to get and keep his flame burning, I can't be happy. I may have more success in getting him to show me more love, but if I have to surpress my own passion in order for him to show more of his, what's the use...it would be so energy draining, that I would be too exhausted emotionally to enjoy the results of my "work".
Even from early on, I always spoke my mind to him. I showed him love and gave him gifts. I told him all I felt, exactly how I felt, when and why I felt it. My weapons were my honest love and sincerity. It is what won his heart. Should I have played games, pretend to be hard to get...would it have worked out?
I don't know. I'm just glad I haven't.
It feels so good to be yourself, say what you think and what you feel. And if they need the thrill of the game to be interested in you, hell, then you are not missing much !
I wonder if any other people feel the same way, or am I just so different ?
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