Marriage problem

Hi! My husband and I been married for 7 years. We have 2 kids, an almost 4yrs old and a 9months old. Lately, I've been lonely and depressed. I noticed my husband and I doesn't communicate anymore. When he comes home from work, I always ask how's his day was. Etc. Most of the time he sits and watch tv or he'll be on the phone. So I end up doing the same thing. When I'm trying to talk to him, I feel like he doesn't listen to what I'm saying. He either looking at the tv or his phone. It's irritating. I confronted him about it and nothing has changed. I realized, in 7 yrs that we've been married, he doesn't know much about my childhood or he doesn't know much about me. It's like when I was telling him a story of my fun childhood memories before he never listened. But when he tells me his childhood memories, I know all the stories he told me because I listened. One time I was telling him that my dad was sick, it's like it went out from the other ear. I didn't get any reaction from him. It just hurts to know that I feel like I'm talking to a wall. But when he's talking to somebody else he's all ears. To be honest, I get more conversation with my 4yrs old than him. We don't go on a date or do anything because I stopped telling him let's do this do that. I want him to have initiative. He couldn't even say hey let's watch a movie. Or hey let's get out of the house and do something. I'm starting to get really tired of everything. I want to be happy again in our marriage. When I look at him I feel pain, sadness and loneliness. Am I asking too much? A little attention, affection, complement would be nice..
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