Hello,
I am looking for advice on fixing my marriage. Long story short the Misses told me she wanted a divorce. She initially did not tell me why other then some general items of helping around the house and such. She seemed to be in a hurry and kept pushing up the time table of getting the divorce. After a very stressful week I finally got her to open up. She also agreed to give me time to work on things.
Basically she said she loved me but was not attracted to me anymore. She also wanted me to be the man of the house and be more confident and less passive. She told me she wants me to be more like when we first met and I was in the military. She brought up a guy at the gym she goes to and how he is attractive to her because he is funny and exudes confidence.
I have made a lot of positive changes as far as helping with the house and what not. I know if I can not get her attracted to me in short order she will be gone. We have been together 7+ years and I do not want to lose her. She means the world to me. Any advice is welcome.
I am looking for advice on fixing my marriage. Long story short the Misses told me she wanted a divorce. She initially did not tell me why other then some general items of helping around the house and such. She seemed to be in a hurry and kept pushing up the time table of getting the divorce. After a very stressful week I finally got her to open up. She also agreed to give me time to work on things.
Basically she said she loved me but was not attracted to me anymore. She also wanted me to be the man of the house and be more confident and less passive. She told me she wants me to be more like when we first met and I was in the military. She brought up a guy at the gym she goes to and how he is attractive to her because he is funny and exudes confidence.
I have made a lot of positive changes as far as helping with the house and what not. I know if I can not get her attracted to me in short order she will be gone. We have been together 7+ years and I do not want to lose her. She means the world to me. Any advice is welcome.
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