Am I completely fooling myself to expect a coming clean confession, ownership and apology for the years of cheating, lying, neglect and emotional abuse? Am I deranged to expect another human to realize what they've done to the person who loved and trusted them for so long?
My ex-h has never fully fessed up, I've had trickle truth since D-Day, and he's never once owned his actions, been accountable for the wreckage he's created or told me he's sorry for it all.
The most he's ever said is "I'm sorry you're hurt". Exactly those words. Basically making it all my problem and nothing to do with him. Has anyone ever received the above from their WW spouse? Or is it like the Loch Ness Monster - urban myth? Not that it would make much of a difference now, but I would still like to hear it and it would validate everything I felt and have been through, especially since his favorite pastime was gaslighting me.
My ex-h has never fully fessed up, I've had trickle truth since D-Day, and he's never once owned his actions, been accountable for the wreckage he's created or told me he's sorry for it all.
The most he's ever said is "I'm sorry you're hurt". Exactly those words. Basically making it all my problem and nothing to do with him. Has anyone ever received the above from their WW spouse? Or is it like the Loch Ness Monster - urban myth? Not that it would make much of a difference now, but I would still like to hear it and it would validate everything I felt and have been through, especially since his favorite pastime was gaslighting me.
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