I have wrote a few posts and mostly they have been filled with complaints about my husband ... the past days I have thought a lot and I think it is time to see what is wrong on my side.
I have never been a LD woman. I have always enjoyed sex, been very needy in this area and just happy to please my husband.
Once the problems in our marriage started (trust issues, being taken for granted and all such typical things), I have started to blame him for not being good enough in the bed area/not wanting and needing sex as much as I do. Then we have had financial problems. Started a new own business (which still is in its baby shoes ...). We got robbed (no insurance for what was stolen). We suddenly lost a pet. I suddenly lost a parent, which was the worst that ever happened to me in my life and still is.
Ever since then I feel too lazy for sex. I am happy when he "takes me", but I will just lay around and moan, not move very much or jump on him. I don't really initiate anymore. I'm a touchy person and cuddle a lot, but I don't really do more anymore. I love him. I find him very attractive. I don't want any other man. I do want sex. Just I feel very mhh tired. Exhausted. Stressed out. It does not kill my libido, but it somehow numbs my body in really participating.
All that might sound crazy ... I just wanted to ask, if anyone has experienced something like this before? Does it get back to normal by itself, in time? Is there anything I could really do about it? (Please don't say "Just jump right into it!" ... I could do that. I could give him a BJ right now and feel happy and think now everything will change to the better ... just to be very disappointed and sad in 2 days, realising that it won't last that way.)
I have never been a LD woman. I have always enjoyed sex, been very needy in this area and just happy to please my husband.
Once the problems in our marriage started (trust issues, being taken for granted and all such typical things), I have started to blame him for not being good enough in the bed area/not wanting and needing sex as much as I do. Then we have had financial problems. Started a new own business (which still is in its baby shoes ...). We got robbed (no insurance for what was stolen). We suddenly lost a pet. I suddenly lost a parent, which was the worst that ever happened to me in my life and still is.
Ever since then I feel too lazy for sex. I am happy when he "takes me", but I will just lay around and moan, not move very much or jump on him. I don't really initiate anymore. I'm a touchy person and cuddle a lot, but I don't really do more anymore. I love him. I find him very attractive. I don't want any other man. I do want sex. Just I feel very mhh tired. Exhausted. Stressed out. It does not kill my libido, but it somehow numbs my body in really participating.
All that might sound crazy ... I just wanted to ask, if anyone has experienced something like this before? Does it get back to normal by itself, in time? Is there anything I could really do about it? (Please don't say "Just jump right into it!" ... I could do that. I could give him a BJ right now and feel happy and think now everything will change to the better ... just to be very disappointed and sad in 2 days, realising that it won't last that way.)
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