I don't mean to be sexist or stereotype or anything so don't get offended by this but it's pretty obvious that women need men to physically protect them. It's what all husbands and boyfriends do for their wives or girlfriends. All girls know going to a club alone means trouble from random men but going with a male whether he is a brother, friend, or boyfriend always keeps the weird men away. In general, in big cities like London, I'm sure a girl feels safe walking around late at night with her husband/boyfriend rather than with another girl or alone.
I being a single girl who has never had a bf and lives in London feel very uncomfortable and sad when I am all alone or in a crowded train pushed up against other passengers and I look around and see guys hugging and kind of shielding their girlfriend or wife from the strangers and there I am with no one. I am a strong, independent girl who is a student at a top university, financially dependent, etc. I go everywhere alone and do everything by myself. I don't think it is ideal or practical though. Sometimes when I go out late to run errands I feel really unsafe and sad. I wish I had a guy with me. Someone I love and am attracted to to spend time with and explore the city with. I wish I wasn't always alone. I know I'd feel safer with a guy. What are your thoughts? Girls who are like what I described, do you agree or not? Guys, do you agree?? AND I don't mean I want a boyfriend as a bodyguard, I just wish I had a guy in my life who I could also feel really safe around and it wo uld get rid of any feelings of fear when I'm out late. I mean I think after a certain point it is really pointless to live a single life. Life is meant for companionship.
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