Ok here goes, I found out last week that my wife of 12 yrs (we've been together 22) has been having an affair with a casual friend we both new he has 3 kids we have no kids. the affair has been going on for a couple of months, I cant believe I didn't read the signs, she would make excuses to go out withdrew both emotionally and sexually, always on face book put a code on her phone (saying in case it got stolen) when she told me (because the so called friends wife found out) she said she wasn't in love with me any more. I flew of the handle I said she should go, she packed left and went to a hotel to be with him, for the next 3 days she stayed there, till he left to go back to his wife to see his kids there all in early teens his wife wants to try again but he said he was just going back to see the kids ( stringing his wife along). I still love her and think its worth trying to save our marriage, but I am so hurt and wounded, I cant get the images of the m together out my head, all the lies, my whole world is in turmoil. she came back at the weekend to look after the cats as I was going to stay with a friend for the night we talked, went for a meal, and she now says she's staying with a friend till she decides what to do. We've cut all contact and she said the same to him two. I keep vacillating between wanting her back and thinking maybe it best to end it know. am at a loss.
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