Hi. I'm new here and have a few things I'm trying to work through. I hope someone will help me out as I'm a verbal processor. I have a very low libido but find that if I read sexy stories it really helps me out. But I feel bad and dirty after I read them, even though it leads to some really good sex. Because of these bad feelings, I don't often partake in that activity. Rationally, I know it's okay to read it - I'm an adult. But I feel guilty afterwards. Is it normal for woman to look at sexual material for arousal? Am I a bad person because I need a little help?
Also, how do you deal with having sex when your teenagers are in the next room (their bedrooms). I know they know about sex but it makes me feel humiliated or embarrassed if they were to know what we were doing. Which I know is silly because they should want to see the door shut as often as possible because it means mom and dad's marriage is good. But still....
I want to have a higher sex drive, are there any tips to get there? I find that I normally don't want to have sex, don't even think about it but I like it when we do have it and so does my husband. What I mean is that most of the time it's pretty good. I really don't know what my issue is. I never want to have it but usually when I give in, I like it. I'd like to want it before he touches me and not have to "give in".
Any advice or support would be appreciated.
Thank you.
Also, how do you deal with having sex when your teenagers are in the next room (their bedrooms). I know they know about sex but it makes me feel humiliated or embarrassed if they were to know what we were doing. Which I know is silly because they should want to see the door shut as often as possible because it means mom and dad's marriage is good. But still....
I want to have a higher sex drive, are there any tips to get there? I find that I normally don't want to have sex, don't even think about it but I like it when we do have it and so does my husband. What I mean is that most of the time it's pretty good. I really don't know what my issue is. I never want to have it but usually when I give in, I like it. I'd like to want it before he touches me and not have to "give in".
Any advice or support would be appreciated.
Thank you.
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