In a nut shell- married for thirteen years. Husband has severe anger management issues with violent verbal outbursts as well as power and control issues (with money, isolating me from friends and family). We went to counseling after I said I'm moving out, that happened for about 4 sessions, he stopped going I continued. I moved out and into my folks house with my two kids because it was so toxic and I feared it was going to be dangerous for me to stay. We've been separated for 1.5 years. In a conversation about the kids about a month and a half ago he asked me move back in and that he'd do ANYTHING for that to happen.
I was firm and said I will never move back unless he addresses his anxiety and anger issues through intensive counseling. He said he would. I'm not moving back in, yet per say.
Friends and some family have mixed emotions about it. My therapist is not exactly supportive of it. I don't know what to think. He's very controlling and manipulative and I fear going back for that reason but want to TRY and be a happy family with my children.
Have any of the ladies on this site been here and went through counseling AGAIN? How did it work out? I know everyone is different but I'd like hear some stories.
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I was firm and said I will never move back unless he addresses his anxiety and anger issues through intensive counseling. He said he would. I'm not moving back in, yet per say.
Friends and some family have mixed emotions about it. My therapist is not exactly supportive of it. I don't know what to think. He's very controlling and manipulative and I fear going back for that reason but want to TRY and be a happy family with my children.
Have any of the ladies on this site been here and went through counseling AGAIN? How did it work out? I know everyone is different but I'd like hear some stories.
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